She’s decisive about her career path — to provide low-cost therapy for children with cognitive disorders — but not so sure about her romantic future. Admitting she’s a bit fickle when it comes to men, this 21-year-old reserves the right to redefine the qualifications of her perfect match at any time.

She was once the quintessential tomboy — “You couldn’t get me in a dress.” — but now this 20-year-old, Vietnamese-American woman savors her girlie side.